“What you have to decide... is how you want your life to be. If your forever was ending tomorrow, would this be how you'd want to have spent it? Listen, the truth is, nothing is guaranteed. You know that more than anybody. So dont be afraid. Be alive.”
― Sarah Dessen, The Truth About Forever
“In all of living, have much fun and laughter. Life is to be enjoyed, not just endured.”
― Gordon B. Hinckley
“Enjoy life. There's plenty of time to be dead.”
― Hans Christian Andersen
“The trick is to enjoy life. Don't wish away your days, waiting for better ones ahead.”
― Marjorie Pay Hinckley
“Live a good life. In the end it is not the years in a life, but the life in the years.”
― Abraham Lincoln
“Life is an adventure! So live it up!”
― L.M. Preston
“Don't you ever get the feeling that all your life is going by and you're not taking advantage of it? Do you realize you've lived nearly half the time you have to live already?”
― Ernest Hemingway, The Sun Also Rises
“There isn't so much to be afraid of, out there. I can remember thinking it was funny to find that out, on the last night of my life; I'd spent the rest of it being afraid of everything.”
― Nick Hornby, A Long Way Down
“I am not worried about dying, what I am worried about is not living”
― Saji Ijiyemi, Don't Die Sitting
Dan Pearce
“Death is most terrifying to those who have yet to live.”
― Dan Pearce, Single Dad Laughing
20 Things People Regret the Most Before They DieClose your eyes and imagine that you’re at your own funeral—a bit morbid I know, but there’s a reason for it. Now think about what you’d like people to say about you. What kind of a life do you want to lead? People die with all kinds of regrets. Don’t be one of them.
1. I wish I’d cared less about what other people think.
It’s only when you realise how little other people are really thinking of you (in a negative sense) that you realise how much time you spent caring and wasting energy worrying about this.
2. I wish I had accomplished more.
You don’t have to have won an Oscar, built up a business or run a marathon, but having small personal accomplishments is important.
3. I wish I had told __ how I truly felt.
Even if the “one” doesn’t exist, telling someone how you truly feel will always save you from that gut wrenching”but what if…” feeling that could linger for life if you stay quiet.
4. I wish I had stood up for myself more.
Sometimes, it’s too easy to think that if you go all out to please everyone you’ll be liked more or your partner won’t run off with anyone else. I think age probably teaches us to be nice but not at the expense of our own happiness.
5. I wish I had followed my passion in life.
It’s so easy to be seduced by a stable salary, a solid routine and a comfortable life, but at what expense?
6. I wish our last conversation hadn’t been an argument.
Life is short, and you never really know when the last time you speak to someone you love will be. It’s these moments that really stay clear in peoples’ minds.
7. I wish I had let my children grow up to be who they wanted to be.
The realisation that love, compassion and empathy are so much more important than clashes in values or belief systems can hit home hard.
8. I wish I had lived more in the moment.
Watching children grow up makes you realise how short-lived and precious time really is, and as we age, many of us live less and less in the present.
9. I wish I had worked less.
There’s always a desire to have loosened up a bit more with this one and the realisation that financial success or career accomplishment doesn’t necessarily equal a fulfilled life.
10. I wish I had traveled more.
It can be done at any age, with kids or not but many talk themselves out of it for all kinds of reasons such as lack of money, mortgage, children, etc. When there’s a regret, you know it could have been possible at some stage.
11. I wish I had trusted my gut rather than listening to everyone else.
Making your own decisions and feeling confident in the decisions you make gives us fulfilment and joy from life. Going against your gut only breeds resentment and bitterness.
12. I wish I’d taken better care of myself.
Premature health problems or aging always makes you wonder if you’d eaten healthier, exercised more and been less stressed, would you be where you are today?
13. I wish I’d taken more risks.
Everyone has their own idea of what’s risky, but you know when you’re living too much in your comfort zone. In hindsight, some people feel they missed out on a lot of adventure life has to offer.
14. I wish I’d had more time.
Many people say time speeds up as we age. The six weeks of summer holidays we had as kids certainly seemed to last a lifetime. If time speeds up, then it’s even more important to make the most of every moment.
15. I wish I hadn’t worried so much.
If you’ve ever kept a diary and looked back, you’ll probably wonder why you ever got so worked up over X.
16. I wish I’d appreciated ___ more.
The consequences of taking people for granted are always hard to deal with.
17. I wish I’d spent more time with my family.
Some people get caught up with work, move to other parts of the world, grow old with grudges against family members only to realize their priorities were in the wrong place.
18. I wish I hadn’t taken myself so seriously.
Life is just more fun when you can laugh at yourself.
19. I wish I’d done more for other people.
Doing things for others just makes life more meaningful.
20. I wish I could have felt happier.
The realization that happiness is a state of mind that you can control sometimes doesn’t occur to people until it’s too late.
