Here's are two truths in Ministry (and business). It's a good thing to be connected and network. It's a bad thing to connect with people who are users and untrustworthy. Get away from them. Imprint this in your mind:

a. Don't waste your time initiating relationships that aren't going to thrive and benefit both sides.

b. Productive connection requires mutual trust. You can't empathize with someone you don't trust.