OK, offensive in more ways than I can count.. but funny
A critical creative look at issues of Economics, Politics and Finding a Purpose in Life - Let's talk about it. I try to leave the woodpile higher than I found it.
Monday, December 16, 2013
I have often said that Liberalism (and many Democrats) is a mental disorder.
Now with this last socialist crackpot trying to shoot up a
school we see a pattern. My recommendation is keeping anything sharp,
poison or deadly weapon out of the hands of the mentally unstable.
Friends don't let liberal friends have guns. Conservatives need them.
Who Said it?
Who
said that the way to gain power is to tell "'a lie so colossal that no
one would believe that someone could have the impudence'.... or the
audacity?"
and
"The key is that the Lie be repeated over and over until it seems to be a part of realty. It is a propaganda technique requiring a compliant media."
spoken by Adolf Hitler
The audacious lie only works if many are already primed to want to believe the lie. Millions of Germans wanted to believe that the Jews were the reason for their problems.
In the same way, millions of Americans wanted to believe in the hopeandchange mantra. Millions still defend Obama because they think he meant well. He can and will tell unfettered lies -- that is, lies without fetters -- until enough people on his own side tell him he has to stop.
Fetters are restraints. Obama was in need of some restraint.
Fortunately people are catching on to the big lie and the big liar.
and
"The key is that the Lie be repeated over and over until it seems to be a part of realty. It is a propaganda technique requiring a compliant media."
spoken by Adolf Hitler
The audacious lie only works if many are already primed to want to believe the lie. Millions of Germans wanted to believe that the Jews were the reason for their problems.
In the same way, millions of Americans wanted to believe in the hopeandchange mantra. Millions still defend Obama because they think he meant well. He can and will tell unfettered lies -- that is, lies without fetters -- until enough people on his own side tell him he has to stop.
Fetters are restraints. Obama was in need of some restraint.
Fortunately people are catching on to the big lie and the big liar.
Upward Mobility?
Why is this? What is the problem. IS upward mobility even possible any more in the USA? I believe that it is, but there is something very wrong with these kinds of statistics.
People living in Area Code 60043 Kenilworth, IL (Just North of Chicago) with $242,188 as a Median household income. 88% of them are College Graduates.
I live in zip code 60175 - Average Household Income is $128,149 and 52% with College Degrees.
On the south side of Chicago between Western and Racine north of 74th st south Zip Code 60636 Average Household Income is $26,625 (7% are college graduates). I have several friends who live in this area.
Here's the question: The war on poverty and the liberal agenda has failed them completely. There is no improvement. 50 years ago the divide between the rich and poor was not this great. It's not the rich's fault for getting richer. It's not the poor's fault for their poverty. It's a culture that insists on keeping people subject and obedient. The idea of upward mobility is not part of the vision in 60636 any more so the people perish for it's lack. SO, the issue is, do we reinforce that vision-less life by subsidy, or do we encourage those capable of getting up and out to move up?
I keep saying Poverty is a product of a broken culture.... one that the power brokers want to keep in place. Thinking that we can somehow level the playing field by taking from the haves is flawed. The key to helping the poor is helping them to become rich...even a little. IF a person earning $26,625 with a vision to see themselves earning $53,050 in ten years is a better goal than keeping them poor by reinforcing a culture of poverty.
By the way, the richest people in the USA live around Washington DC... they got rich on the poor's backs.
http://www.washingtonpost.com/sf/local/2013/11/09/washington-a-world-apart/
People living in Area Code 60043 Kenilworth, IL (Just North of Chicago) with $242,188 as a Median household income. 88% of them are College Graduates.
I live in zip code 60175 - Average Household Income is $128,149 and 52% with College Degrees.
On the south side of Chicago between Western and Racine north of 74th st south Zip Code 60636 Average Household Income is $26,625 (7% are college graduates). I have several friends who live in this area.
Here's the question: The war on poverty and the liberal agenda has failed them completely. There is no improvement. 50 years ago the divide between the rich and poor was not this great. It's not the rich's fault for getting richer. It's not the poor's fault for their poverty. It's a culture that insists on keeping people subject and obedient. The idea of upward mobility is not part of the vision in 60636 any more so the people perish for it's lack. SO, the issue is, do we reinforce that vision-less life by subsidy, or do we encourage those capable of getting up and out to move up?
I keep saying Poverty is a product of a broken culture.... one that the power brokers want to keep in place. Thinking that we can somehow level the playing field by taking from the haves is flawed. The key to helping the poor is helping them to become rich...even a little. IF a person earning $26,625 with a vision to see themselves earning $53,050 in ten years is a better goal than keeping them poor by reinforcing a culture of poverty.
By the way, the richest people in the USA live around Washington DC... they got rich on the poor's backs.
http://www.washingtonpost.com/sf/local/2013/11/09/washington-a-world-apart/
Sunday, December 15, 2013
You knew this was coming.
Soon if you want a half dozen wives, go for it.
Polygamy is just a tiny step farther down the slippery slope once
marriage was made of no account by same sex marriage.
sad
Two
Men who I helped get elected to congress, two men who I have respected,
both voted for the Ryan Murray Budget Deal. Peter Roskam and Randy
Hultgren. This was a foolish mistake. We go nothing out of it. Now I
will have to work to get both of them replaced by genuine conservatives.
It won't be easy, and i know there will be blood... but we can't have
squishy soft people holding the purse-strings in our government.
I
wish every person who believes that a higher minimum wage is a good
thing would watch this basic tutorial from Kahn Academy. I wish more
important that anyone who pretends to try to lead a Country, State of
City in the USA would be required before taking office to take a good
course on economics. The lack of economic understanding and the gross
ignorance of our leaders is bankrupting the USA.
Wednesday, December 11, 2013
Tuesday, December 10, 2013
Monday, December 09, 2013
How to avoid a DUI
With the Holidays upon us I would like to share a personal experience with my friends and family about drinking and driving.
As you may know some of us have been known to have brushes with the authorities from time to time on the way home after a "social session" out with friends.
Well, two days ago I was out for an evening with friends and had several cocktails followed by some rather nice red wine. Feeling jolly I still had the sense to know that I may be slightly over the limit.
That's when I did something that I've never done before - I took a cab home.
Sure enough on the way home there was a police road block, but since it was a cab they waved it past. I arrived home safely without incident.
This was a real surprise as I had never driven a cab before, I don't know where I got it and now that it's in my garage I don't know what to do with it.
As you may know some of us have been known to have brushes with the authorities from time to time on the way home after a "social session" out with friends.
Well, two days ago I was out for an evening with friends and had several cocktails followed by some rather nice red wine. Feeling jolly I still had the sense to know that I may be slightly over the limit.
That's when I did something that I've never done before - I took a cab home.
Sure enough on the way home there was a police road block, but since it was a cab they waved it past. I arrived home safely without incident.
This was a real surprise as I had never driven a cab before, I don't know where I got it and now that it's in my garage I don't know what to do with it.
A Few Classic Quotes For Football Fans
"In Alabama, an atheist is someone who
does not believe in Bear Bryant."
Wally Butts
University of Georgia
"I never graduated from Iowa ,
but I was only there for two terms -
Truman's and Eisenhower's."
Alex Karras
College & Professional Player
"My advice to defensive players:
Take the shortest route to the ball and
arrive in a bad humor."
Bowden Wyatt
University of Tennessee
"They whipped us like a tied up goat."
&
"Oh, we played about like three tons
of buzzard puke this afternoon."
Spike Dykes
Texas Tech Coach
"I asked Darrell Royal, the Coach of the Texas Longhorns, why he didn't recruit me and he said:
Well, Walt, we took a look at you and
you weren't any good."
Walt Garrison
University of Oklahoma
Dallas Cowboys
"We didn't tackle well today
but we made up for it by not blocking."
John McKay
University of Southern California
"We live one day at a time and
scratch where it itches."
&
"They cut us up like boarding house pie...
And that's real small pieces."
Darrell Royal
University of Texas
"Football is NOT a contact sport -
it is a collision sport.
Dancing is a contact sport."
Duffie Daugherty
Michigan State
"At Georgia Southern, we don't cheat...
That costs money and we don't have any."
Erk Russell
University of Georgia
Georgia Southern
"I don't expect to win enough games
to be put on NCAA probation.
I just want to win enough
to warrant an investigation."
Bob Devaney
University of Nebraska
Gentlemen, it is better to have died a small boy...
than to fumble THIS football"
John Heisman
Selah
Sunday, December 08, 2013
In remembering Mandela. let us not forget the dark side he had. He was not a saint. He seemed to repent later in life... but
Necklacing.
A
favorite method of execution by Mandela's African National Congress
where a tire soaked in gasoline would be placed around the body of
victim and then set ablaze.
Necklacing sentences were carried out by "people's courts" against
victims who were deemed to be white collaborators. Often times, the
families of the one sentence were often sentenced to death by
necklacing.
Winnie Mandela, wife of imprisoned Nelson Mandela, endorsed the
practice. Nelson Mandela, fully aware of the practice, never spoke out
against it.
Know the real Mandela.
- JT III%
Saturday, December 07, 2013
Thursday, December 05, 2013
A page Turneth
Today is my brother Steve's birthday. Happy Birthday Sir. Enjoy the sun down southish.
Yet.... it's not right. We were 18 just 3 weeks ago...right?
Anyway... celebrate..but in moderation..
Yet.... it's not right. We were 18 just 3 weeks ago...right?
Anyway... celebrate..but in moderation..
Many still question death of Miriam Carey, who claimed Obama fathered her child - Columbia Independent | Examiner.com
Authorities say Carey was shot while she was still in the car. Yet some reports claim she had emerged from the vehicle before she was gunned down. Either way one thing is clear, Carey’s car was stopped, boxed in by police, and was no longer posing a threat to anyone. Police officers had surrounded the car with their guns drawn and pointed at her. Police still will not say how many shots were ultimately fired, and the forensics report has still not been released.
Many still question death of Miriam Carey, who claimed Obama fathered her child - Columbia Independent | Examiner.com
Many still question death of Miriam Carey, who claimed Obama fathered her child - Columbia Independent | Examiner.com
Wednesday, December 04, 2013
From Chuck Baldwin
Chuck
believes that Ichabod is written over the Establishment Church... Flee
her abomination. She cannot be saved anymore. If you agree, you are
not a part of her.
Here are some actual quotes from pastors:
“If federal agents or troops came to my house and put my wife on the kitchen table and raped her, Romans 13 tells me I could not interfere.”
“If government forces came to my home intent on harming my wife and children, I would not resist; I would simply tell my family to run.”
“America’s Founding Fathers were rebels against God. They had no right to fight a war for independence. Subjection to a king, even a tyrannical one, is God’s Will.”
“Anyone who resists civil government is going to hell.”
“There is no such thing as natural law, and anyone who promotes it is of the devil.”
Truly did Jesus say, “Can the blind lead the blind? shall they not both fall into the ditch?” (Luke 6:39 KJV) That is exactly what is happening in America today: the blind are leading the blind into the ditch of tyranny and oppression.
I am further convinced that the only way liberty and justice can be restored to America is for Christians to get out of these idolatrous government churches and form tens of thousands of independent, non-affiliated, non-establishment churches and home-churches. It must happen; it’s going to happen! I pray that God will use whatever time I have left on this earth to being part of it.
There's a lot more in my syndicated column this week. It is entitled, "Get Off The Sinking Ship." I hope you will read it.
Why can't people see that the same policies that destroyed Detroit, Cleveland, Buffalo, and many other once-strong metropolitan centers of manufacturing, are being applied to the entire nation!
The main problem with that, is that there will be no other government stupid enough to bail out the USA, after this happens!
UK school brands, as "racists", kids with parents objecting to Islam-indoctrinating field trip (Rush Limbaugh)
UK school brands, as "racists", kids with parents objecting to Islam-indoctrinating field trip (Rush Limbaugh)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cGUaUKXzEiA
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cGUaUKXzEiA
Obama's Health Care Policy... just don't get sick
Angie
is a FB Friend from Ireland. IF you want to know how wonderful "Free"
healthcare will be.. read this. When the post office and DMV combine to
"manage" your healthcare... this is what happens. I hope all of you
who voted for the people that is bringing this to you never get sick....
So
I have been on a waiting list for 2 years to see an ear, nose and
throat consultant for chronic ear infections and inability to POP left
ear since swimming in what I think was a contaminated swimming pool in
Orange County in December 2010....today Cavan/Monaghan Hospital sends me
a letter saying Please contact us within 7 days for your URGENT
appointment lol !!
Just like in MPLS
Have you ever wondered why folks in California can appear so confused? Consider this:
Chief Heather Fong (left), is the first SFPD female, lesbian chief of police.
Theresa Sparks (center), a former male, is president of the San Francisco Police Commission, CEO of a multimillion-dollar sex toy retailer, and a transgender woman.
Sgt. Stephan Thorne (right), a former female, is the first transgender male SFPD police officer.
Their Representative in Congress is Nancy Pelosi.
ANY QUESTIONS?
Chief Heather Fong (left), is the first SFPD female, lesbian chief of police.
Theresa Sparks (center), a former male, is president of the San Francisco Police Commission, CEO of a multimillion-dollar sex toy retailer, and a transgender woman.
Sgt. Stephan Thorne (right), a former female, is the first transgender male SFPD police officer.
Their Representative in Congress is Nancy Pelosi.
ANY QUESTIONS?
She is a total loon.
One
of the jokes we in Illinois send to the US Congress (no not Jesse
Jackson Jr) is Jan Schakowsky. Yet low
information democrats keep re electing her. The problem I have with her
is not her ignorance nor stupidity, but her husband, a senior
Democratic operative who defrauded banks in order to keep his
Marxist/Communist community organization afloat by engaging in 16 counts
of bank and tax fraud. He is the brains that keeps getting her back
into office despite her total lack of common sense. What is even more
dire is he is the MAIN AUTHOR of the abortive Obamacare law. It is an
end run effort to create a Marxist dictatorship in our nation. Read
this if you dare to know the truth.... or remain a pawn.
http://www.lewrockwell.com/ 2013/12/dave-hodges/ who-wrote-obamacare/
http://www.lewrockwell.com/
PICTURE OF THE DAY 2: Buy a Castrated Slave, on Facebook
A Saudi Muslim man has tried to sell a castrated slave on Facebook, with this horrifying advertisement:
Peace be upon you …
I have a [male] slave I bought from an African country and arranged for his visa and stay till I got him to Saudi [Arabia]
His description:
1 – Black skin. Tall 172 cm. Weight 60 kilos.
2 – Castrated (excellent for working with a family) you can check him with a doctor yourself if you have experience in the matter.
3 – [His] health is quite undamaged and has no imperfections.
4 – Age 26 years.
5 – Religion Muslim and [he is] obedient and will not disobey you except in what displeases God. Please, the matter is very serious and is not a joke.
*Picture Courtesy of Daniel Greenfield, Translation Courtesy of Theodore Shoebat
I see a lot of people who want to see English be our official language.
I'm
for that since it is my native tongue... I just wish english made sense.
I wish there were established observed rules of usage that actually
worked. I just wish spelling this language made any sense at all. I
wish our grammatical rules were predictable. It's really a mess. There
is no rhyme or reason to our language. German would be better.
Spanish would be better. They have (in their pure forms, not Spanglish
or Deutschlish) spelling and grammatical order to them. SIGH. This
from a guy who has a minor college degree in this abomination of a
language.
I made a comment on the fallacy of MLM "business" yesterday. There are a number of reasons why:
It divides people when what they feel they are promised doesn't come to pass
People in leadership (Pastors) many times use it to persuade their flock into signing up which for a short time enriches them.. at the expense of others. This has destroyed many good churches.
It's not a business and causes people to get a jaundiced view of what business is.
Only a few "Promoters" make money. Yes you hear all about how big money is made.. it's fiction.
People end up buying overpriced, over-promised product that is mostly snake oil.
Only the most gullible and weak are most easily lured into this.
People lose faith in the motivational ideals propounded by promoters... which robs them of the truth of these concepts. They become victims by the side of the road hearts hardened to the truth of the things they heard.
The mixing of Christian theology and hucksterism makes people cynical.
Those who have been suckers in these scams often are repeat offenders... they lurch from one scam to another as prisoners of hope without any chance to succeed.
I don't hate those who are involved in these things, I just feel sorry for them. AND I am warning those I care about. IF you think you want be in business, then find a real business and do that. There are a million ways to make a very good living... MLM is not one of them.
The classic low information voters voted in this fiasco.

Gallup: Democrats, Young Americans Bought Pigs in Pokes Wholesale
pjmedia.com
A new Gallup poll finds that those who know the least about Obamacare tend to be the ones who gave Barack Obama both o
OWN THE BARREL.
Be
careful who's star you hook yourself to. It is critical in life that
you are walking together with people who have victory in their
vocabulary. Failure is a virus and hanging around with losers causes
you to lose. It's contagious. I know far too many good people who end
up at the bottom of the barrel with others that dragged them there when
all along it was God's purpose for them to OWN THE BARREL.
Sunday, December 01, 2013
There is no one coming on a white horse to rescue you.
This is not a theological statement... although it could be. This is a comment about politics and relationships.
Politically, if you believe that there is some person who is coming to become Regan reincarnated and lead us all to victory... they ain't coming. Those of us who want our country back from the socialists will have to do it one voter at a time. It's hard work. There is no other way.
The same thing is true of single women over 30. I meet and know far too many who are lovely, shy, want to meet someone and are giving up because the guy on the white horse who is coming to sweep them off their feet hasn't shown up. Here's a tip, He's not coming. Worse, we all think meeting someone is an app. (Unmarried? There's an app for that) So we look at Christian Mingle, It's just lunch, Match.com and E-Harmony as a cyber way to meet the white horse guy. Worse, the experience is brutal. If you don't looks and body of Gisele Bündchen you are out of luck. The guys on the "APPS" have the emotional depth of a thimble and are looking for a virginal 30 something supermodel who somehow missed out. Got kids? Overweight? Been married before? Not really what they are looking for.
Most unmarried men in their 30s and 40s aren't on the "Apps". A few, and there are successful marriages made in Appville that happen. Fewer than the activity level would first define. The percentages are really against the single woman.
At the same time I know personally a half dozen men who are in that age bracket, never married, straight, good jobs (some very good jobs), decent, christian, not drinkers, smokers or nasty in any way. Good clean men who's only defect is (you knew there was one) is.... wait for it.. they don't know how to ride a white horse and have become content not wanting to.
Sure they would love to meet someone but are short in whatever social skill it takes to get there. You are walking right by them in the mall. In the church. In the workplace. On the street. In your car. They aren't very cool. They aren't charming. They don't act like those men in the fantasy TV shows or the books with literalistic soft porn women seem to enjoy reading in books and magazines.
I will give you 3 real life examples from this week. None of these guys are on the APPS.
Man lives in MN. 45. Tech guy. Loving. Caring. Never married. Lives alone. Has friends. Owns his own place. Financially stable. Not bad looking. Maybe a little short for his weight (yes women can be shallow too) and would like to meet someone..but lacks the social skill to make it happen. IF you want to meet him with the potential of a future together you will have to pursue him. Call him. Make arrangements to get together with a group. Charm him. Tell him how decent and nice he is. Look in his eyes. Touch him. Help him fall in love with you. Wait you say...that's his job. I want all that. OK. Stay single. His horse is dead no matter the color. Some smart cookie somewhere is going to snag him sooner or later. It could be you and I promise you, you wouldn't be sorry. NO I won't hook you up because this guy is on your block no matter where you live. Open your eyes and start seeing single guys. Then become the pursuer, life changes after 30.
Man Lives in OK. 41. Financial guy. Eccentric. Caring. Able. Handy. Trim. Never Married. Lives alone. Rents. Money in the bank. Frugal. Handsome in his own way. Shaves head because some areas are self shaving. Not a big time Jesus guy but has been there. Open. Has always wanted to meet someone but no longer will invest in the chase. It's not arrogance, he was rejected badly once and won't take the chance. He would be a great catch... but he's not coming for you. IF someone would just invest time and energy in getting to know him... it would be a lay up for her. BUT they are all waiting for the guy with an Albino Equestrian habit.
Man lives in ND. 38. Farmer. Big Farmer. More country than most. A few bad habits... but not terrible. Sometimes thinks he has to meet a mold to meet a woman but the women he meets are not what he wants to meet because they are attracted to the mold he tries to put on. So he goes to the local small town bar and after one beer leaves to go to his place with his dog. Alone. He wants the life he sees his mom and dad have. Goes to his Lutheran church on Sunday. Not deep. Never married. He does his farming thing. Buys a new pickup truck and wonders why there is no one "Decent" around. He would like to be married. But he's shy and very cautious. Has seen too many of his friends who married and ten years later the wife got itchy feet, raising cattle isn't her idea of what life would be like and she ends up taking him for millions in the divorce. He risk losing half the farm. You could meet him and if you didn't play the game he thinks you have to play you will win him. Trust is his love language. He farms because he loves it. He has love to give.. but he needs to know you very very well before he agrees to marry you.
I will say that the most successful marriages I know of men over 30 was where the woman was forward, not pushy, just really there...present. And then let him know it was time to be married.
I know this isn't great news, but it's the truth. You will need to become the hunter and that's going to be a role you didn't ever think you would take... or stay single. By the way, ALL of these case studies are relatives of mine....
Sometimes I'm convinced that the whole idea of an arranged marriage makes more sense than the hodge podge we have now. Go to a trusted older wise third party and have them present you with your future mate. Someone who really has your best interests at heart. Here's the trick, arranged means you don't get to choose. That romance thing is out...for a while until you create it for yourselves.
That's how it's done in many cultures and it works very well. It did for my great grandparents. And they loved each other with successful marriages after the fact.
What I am suggesting is just like this. Marriage is easy if you just don't require romance right away...
Politically, if you believe that there is some person who is coming to become Regan reincarnated and lead us all to victory... they ain't coming. Those of us who want our country back from the socialists will have to do it one voter at a time. It's hard work. There is no other way.
The same thing is true of single women over 30. I meet and know far too many who are lovely, shy, want to meet someone and are giving up because the guy on the white horse who is coming to sweep them off their feet hasn't shown up. Here's a tip, He's not coming. Worse, we all think meeting someone is an app. (Unmarried? There's an app for that) So we look at Christian Mingle, It's just lunch, Match.com and E-Harmony as a cyber way to meet the white horse guy. Worse, the experience is brutal. If you don't looks and body of Gisele Bündchen you are out of luck. The guys on the "APPS" have the emotional depth of a thimble and are looking for a virginal 30 something supermodel who somehow missed out. Got kids? Overweight? Been married before? Not really what they are looking for.
Most unmarried men in their 30s and 40s aren't on the "Apps". A few, and there are successful marriages made in Appville that happen. Fewer than the activity level would first define. The percentages are really against the single woman.
At the same time I know personally a half dozen men who are in that age bracket, never married, straight, good jobs (some very good jobs), decent, christian, not drinkers, smokers or nasty in any way. Good clean men who's only defect is (you knew there was one) is.... wait for it.. they don't know how to ride a white horse and have become content not wanting to.
Sure they would love to meet someone but are short in whatever social skill it takes to get there. You are walking right by them in the mall. In the church. In the workplace. On the street. In your car. They aren't very cool. They aren't charming. They don't act like those men in the fantasy TV shows or the books with literalistic soft porn women seem to enjoy reading in books and magazines.
I will give you 3 real life examples from this week. None of these guys are on the APPS.
Man lives in MN. 45. Tech guy. Loving. Caring. Never married. Lives alone. Has friends. Owns his own place. Financially stable. Not bad looking. Maybe a little short for his weight (yes women can be shallow too) and would like to meet someone..but lacks the social skill to make it happen. IF you want to meet him with the potential of a future together you will have to pursue him. Call him. Make arrangements to get together with a group. Charm him. Tell him how decent and nice he is. Look in his eyes. Touch him. Help him fall in love with you. Wait you say...that's his job. I want all that. OK. Stay single. His horse is dead no matter the color. Some smart cookie somewhere is going to snag him sooner or later. It could be you and I promise you, you wouldn't be sorry. NO I won't hook you up because this guy is on your block no matter where you live. Open your eyes and start seeing single guys. Then become the pursuer, life changes after 30.
Man Lives in OK. 41. Financial guy. Eccentric. Caring. Able. Handy. Trim. Never Married. Lives alone. Rents. Money in the bank. Frugal. Handsome in his own way. Shaves head because some areas are self shaving. Not a big time Jesus guy but has been there. Open. Has always wanted to meet someone but no longer will invest in the chase. It's not arrogance, he was rejected badly once and won't take the chance. He would be a great catch... but he's not coming for you. IF someone would just invest time and energy in getting to know him... it would be a lay up for her. BUT they are all waiting for the guy with an Albino Equestrian habit.
Man lives in ND. 38. Farmer. Big Farmer. More country than most. A few bad habits... but not terrible. Sometimes thinks he has to meet a mold to meet a woman but the women he meets are not what he wants to meet because they are attracted to the mold he tries to put on. So he goes to the local small town bar and after one beer leaves to go to his place with his dog. Alone. He wants the life he sees his mom and dad have. Goes to his Lutheran church on Sunday. Not deep. Never married. He does his farming thing. Buys a new pickup truck and wonders why there is no one "Decent" around. He would like to be married. But he's shy and very cautious. Has seen too many of his friends who married and ten years later the wife got itchy feet, raising cattle isn't her idea of what life would be like and she ends up taking him for millions in the divorce. He risk losing half the farm. You could meet him and if you didn't play the game he thinks you have to play you will win him. Trust is his love language. He farms because he loves it. He has love to give.. but he needs to know you very very well before he agrees to marry you.
I will say that the most successful marriages I know of men over 30 was where the woman was forward, not pushy, just really there...present. And then let him know it was time to be married.
I know this isn't great news, but it's the truth. You will need to become the hunter and that's going to be a role you didn't ever think you would take... or stay single. By the way, ALL of these case studies are relatives of mine....
Sometimes I'm convinced that the whole idea of an arranged marriage makes more sense than the hodge podge we have now. Go to a trusted older wise third party and have them present you with your future mate. Someone who really has your best interests at heart. Here's the trick, arranged means you don't get to choose. That romance thing is out...for a while until you create it for yourselves.
That's how it's done in many cultures and it works very well. It did for my great grandparents. And they loved each other with successful marriages after the fact.
What I am suggesting is just like this. Marriage is easy if you just don't require romance right away...
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![Photo: PICTURE OF THE DAY 2: Buy a Castrated Slave, on Facebook
A Saudi Muslim man has tried to sell a castrated slave on Facebook, with this horrifying advertisement:
Peace be upon you …
I have a [male] slave I bought from an African country and arranged for his visa and stay till I got him to Saudi [Arabia]
His description:
1 – Black skin. Tall 172 cm. Weight 60 kilos.
2 – Castrated (excellent for working with a family) you can check him with a doctor yourself if you have experience in the matter.
3 – [His] health is quite undamaged and has no imperfections.
4 – Age 26 years.
5 – Religion Muslim and [he is] obedient and will not disobey you except in what displeases God. Please, the matter is very serious and is not a joke.
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