We are a divided country. We need to both try harder. It's not adequate for you to say to me, "you can't understand". I am alive and my brain still works. You can try. BUT THEN... you must try to understand ME. You can say, I don't need to understand. I know all I need to know. That's the problem. Your assumptions about me and mine about you have made the word assumption... assume rises to a new level of truth. When you assume to understand me, or me you, we make an "ass" out of "U" and "ME". Or so I assume.